THE FIVE TYPES OF GIRLFRIENDS TO AVOID

Friends play a big role in our lives some times they even become part of our family, but some friends can drain the life out of you, so here are some types of girlfriends to avoid

THE GOSSIPER

The Gossip has no clue what the definition of the word "secret" is. She's usually the first to tell you whose husband did what with whom and why this person lost what and when. It's fun to hear her dissect other people's dirty laundry, but what happens when you stay home and she's with someone else going through yours? The Gossip doesn't mean to hurt people but she just can't shut up. If you like to keep your private life private you may want to steer clear of her.

THE FRIEND TO ANYONE

When you are a teenager its okay to have a bunch of friends to hung out with but once you are grown up (above 20s) you need to know your cycle of friends but this type of friend (the friend to anyone) has more than 10 friends you included, today she hanged out with this one tomorrow she is with another one, the other day she is with a new friend she just met. She is not reliable and you are not sure if your secrets are safe with her, avoid such kind of friendships cause that kind of friends never really gets attached to any of her friends.

THE FAULT FINDER

This type of friend always finds faults in you and others, when you are around them  they are always keen about what  you say or do and they are full of negative energy, when they see something  good they always have negative comments and always want to talk bad about others without seeing the good in them, they never encourage you to do better cause of their failures, to them nothing is ever good or possible.

THE FLAKY FRIEND

She’s skilled at making plans. Frequent texts, constant emails—she wants to hang out this weekend! She’s dying to catch up! But come Friday night, she bails. Or, even worse, she just ignores your calls. A few weeks later, she’s back in your inbox, apologizing for breaking the previous plan (Things got crazy) and wanting to set up another date, which she’ll inevitably miss. Her flakiness is not only frustrating, but it makes you feel bad about yourself. You’ll find yourself asking, “Is it me?” (It’s not.) Ditch the flaky Friend, and clear your calendar for the friends who actually want to spend some quality time together

THE COPY-CUT

 So you're in the mood for joining dance lessons , So is your friend. And a quick trip to the salon. What a coincidence, so is your friend. and do a bit of shopping Yep. So is she. Meet the copycat-- she looks like an individual, but she is just a carbon copy of your opinions and preferences.  Ask her what she wants to do, and she'll respond enthusiastically with her favourite phrase: "Whatever you want!"

The copycat loves your fashion sense, your type of men and your apartment, so don't be surprised if the next day she's got everything you have and is still calling you for advice on which laundry detergent to use.

The copycat can't help being a copycat, which is why ending this friendship can be particularly sad. She might be a victim of low self-esteem or have grown up a lemming-- whatever the case, it's difficult to maintain a relationship with someone who depends on you to make all of her life's decisions. Pull the plug on the copy machine and let her go.